Kinda dumb of me to imply that when guys are dancing they're not in the spotlight.

Despite male dancers from Astaire & Kelly to break-dancing, I think of dancing as nonetheless being a girl thing more than a boy thing* — boys being more into sports and soldiers. So maybe it's 'cause it's less of a boy thing that it still works for the boys.

*That may only be the Anglo-American experience, of course. I don't know.