Also notice that Anthony owing to basic goodheartedness is able to ask questions that from other people (e.g., Al Shipley) are destructive and useless but from him are inspiring and worth following up.

I think that Tim Finney also answered the question somewhat, though not in the way that I did given that Tim, like Anthony, is gay, hence his Ashlee love is not at all likely to be dick specific.

In general, "sexy" is a compliment when aimed at rock music, though punk challenged the sex emphasis somewhat.