It's kind of amazing really -- I'm usually not down with those sorts of arguments either, but holy jeez it's so clearly gender-based! The convo I had with a friend was really interesting, actually; she was at my place with her boyfriend and I explained how I came around to "Not Fair" and how it brought out some of my own prejudices and shitheadedness even in defending the song. Apparently my friend and her boyfriend had had the exact same conversation, leading him to the exact same understanding that I had.
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It's kind of amazing really -- I'm usually not down with those sorts of arguments either, but holy jeez it's so clearly gender-based! The convo I had with a friend was really interesting, actually; she was at my place with her boyfriend and I explained how I came around to "Not Fair" and how it brought out some of my own prejudices and shitheadedness even in defending the song. Apparently my friend and her boyfriend had had the exact same conversation, leading him to the exact same understanding that I had.